What Spain Taught Me About Ministry
By Rev. Tashara S. Void, Contributing Writer
I had the opportunity to visit the beautiful island of Palma de Mallorca. I am embarrassed to say that for the first day, I had no idea where I was or what city I was in. What’s worse? I did not even take the time to get to know the place before I got there. And at the time, I did not think it was necessary. I was offered a trip to Spain, and I said yes without hesitation, not asking for any details outside of travel dates and times. I did not read the travel requirements nor check the weather. I simply went in blinded with my agenda. Is it not sad that before I arrived, I did not take the time to learn about where I was going, and I did not ask any questions? It was as if I had no regard for the culture, the people, or simply the place. I took my privileged self across the sea and not once stopped to entertain who or what would meet me there.
And is that not what we do in ministry, especially in a new appointment or position? We set up programs, projects, ministries, and events and do not consider the who or what? We do not take the time to get to know the culture or spend time learning the language. And, we rarely spend time getting to know the people. We simply go in with our plans, thoughts, and ideas and impose them on others. We do not ask questions. We do not make adjustments or shifts. Instead, we force the people to adjust and shift to us, acting out of what is familiar and comfortable for us. Then, we pat ourselves on the back for a job well done, not once asking what made the job well done and if there was a true impact.
I am sure Palma de Mallorca has a rich culture and heritage, but I would never know it. I was enamored but its beauty and took in the sights, but I could not tell you the history or legacy of the people or the place. Not only did I fail to do the research, but also I did not take the time to learn their language, which created a barrier. What would it have meant if I had spent the extra money to purchase a digital translator to communicate with the people effectively? How much more impactful would the experience have been if I had understood the history and the context? What more could I have learned if I had taken the extra step?
When we say yes to ministry and service, we are saying yes to minister and serve another person. And the most effective way to do that is by knowing where you are going, who you will encounter, what resources are available, and how you can best serve their needs. When we take the time to immerse ourselves in the culture of others, we establish a connection and rapport that breeds an environment of growth and mutual aid. Ministry and service require work upfront and complete engagement in the process. Do not be like me and go in blindly. Prepare and equip yourself to be open to the experiences of others. Do the work to learn the people and place. Make space for others to be authentically themselves, not trying to get them to bend or form to your desire and comfort. Most importantly, study to show thyself approved, not with the mindset to change someone else. But with the openness to learn and grow into a better minister and servant.
